Debt Consolidation
My ex has the house. The only collaterol I have is some IRA’s that have double the value as my debt.

What alternatives are out there? What do you suggest?
I have great credit, pay on time, not behind. I am wanting to get a home within a year, but will not be able with such a large debt. This monkey on my back is stifiling.

Thank you ahead of time for your suggestions!
081707 10:07

Life Insurance
Life insurance, IRA’s, and CD’s are not filed through the estate; therefore, they are not sent through the courts. My husband and I are trying to find out what intangible property his father had when he passed on. Since his oldest sister was not only a benficiary, but also an executrix of the will, among past experience, we don’t know that she distributed property evenly as was dictated in the will.